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People living in Thailand for a while, 'Listen to stories of men in the West (or farang as we are known here) and the bizarre behavior of their wives and girlfriends Thai. At this point of view from outside is often a source of joy. Sometimes it's just a strange behavior. Other times it is a shocking willingness to cheat on their partners completely Farang.
Some of the things that only women make you laugh, but there are still other times take
breathsheer audacity of their actions, their ability to put aside any semblance of morality and settlement, the only way for their own purposes. There are other times when their own stupidity that steals your breath away.
The following four stories all happened to my little village of Phuket, where there's a whole series of pairs farang Thai. These stories are just some of the things that Thai women were given up.
Inappropriate behavior
A youngEuropean boy and his Thai girlfriend in the house I lived in the past three months. Both are very friendly and quickly present themselves. Sometimes sharing a drink in the garden seems like a mere boy in progress. She is very talkative and generally happy. She does not drink, smoke, play games or take the drug, which is a promising beginning for the material girl Thai.
The problem is that he regularly goes completely off the rails. Every two or three days after theira topic of great. I say the argument, but in reality it is usually only their voice is heard shouting insults. Throws things get broken window, and then there are the tears and the drama on the road.
The result is that usually packs her suitcase and says it goes away completely. A great show that is made. This is to say goodbye, to tell us, because we will never see it. Call a taxi and then situated opposite to his house and asked to leave her boyfriend, forwell.
He remains quiet inside and ignore the whole charade. The fact is, we all know, not that they leave. You can return the same day. Otherwise, it will be the next day somehow triumphed. In fact, this excuse has to leave so shallow that, rather than their bags bag, is now in the habit of hiding in our house, so as not to disturb.
What are the arguments? Some of them are usually accused of playing
around with other women. Often, it is that he has spent money on something she thinks is wasteful. But it is HIS money! He pays her a generous allowance. When Thai women do this routine of trying to stop their farang boyfriends spending their money, it is not because they want to save him money. There is a simpler motive. The more the boyfriend spends, the less there is leftover for her to squeeze out of him.
This girl has already told my wife she has three other farang Friends. This is one of the things that come to us Westerners not easy. Is not just that this game is to fool their friends. They think it's something to brag and boast about it if they just under the nose of his friend, the better. Because the thought of my wife told me do not know. Takes probably all Thai women cheat on their partners and farang, which my wife would be smart impressed.
I do not interfere in other peoplerelationships so I will not be telling this guy about the other boyfriends. Anyway, I don't think he is such a fool. He is returning to Europe this week and I doubt if he will be continuing his relationship with this particular Thai girl - but you never know.
Gambling
The previous occupants of this same house were a European guy and his Thai wife. He worked in Europe for six months a year and lived in Phuket for the other six months. He had been doing this for Year, and when, in Phuket, seemed to always have a good relationship. The problem is that for the six months he was gone, his wife had their vices is gambling, and entertainment.
Gambling appears to be a really big problem for some women in Thailand. "I know some of the Thai women in our duty to carry out a deck of cards. They all say the same thing. It 'just a bit' of fun for little money . I've seen how they play, and not for fun. They get very intense,There's not much fun, and even if the stakes are, start small, grow quickly. I've heard of women gaining or losing as 30,000 baht in those "fun" games.
It seems that something in the mentality Thai only very open to gambling
Addiction. Perhaps it is the belief in lucky numbers and fate. Whatever it is, there are good reasons why gambling is illegal in Thailand. It is an endless source of problems, especially for women with money Thaiand time on their hands, and women of Farang.
So every morning, this Thai woman on the way to their local card game. Sometimes she would go for two or three days - you can really play that long. He was doing this for years and I believe that she was losing too much. But then the problems started.
The first sign was when he began asking for loans. At first it was only small amounts that we were happy to give you. But then he wanted 10,000 baht. I knew that this was aSign of a serious problem. It was his loss behind her. The only way to return the money was if he had the luck in the game, so I gave her the loan was rejected.
Of course there are other ways to borrow money in Thailand. If any of these girls is to keep on the track, will slip. Soon there were rough looking Thai men at his door to ask for a refund. He sold his bike and began instead to rent. She sold jewelry and furniture, but used the money for their huntingLosses and loan sharks appeared. Began to disappear for a week at a time. It was evident that their situation was out of control. Then she was gone.
I do not think that sharks got her loan. She packed her suitcase in the middle of the night and fled. There were rumors about what they should, and for such sums would
to do a good job to disappear. There were calls to ask her husband because she could not contact his wife. When he returned to Phuket, there wereNo trace of her. Had not been for his family, at least not return that would have allowed. Simply run away from all the debts and marriage.
Pretend pregnancies
A good friend was very happy that his wife was expecting their first child. The sister of his wife was also satisfied others, but for some reasons. They wanted copies of the ultrasound examinations of the fetus. Australia had a friend that she was sucking like an old crate. He had already twiceconvinced him that she was pregnant and necessary medical expenses. Then, of course, has had two miscarriages and so needed more medical expenses.
Now he tried the same routine for the third time, but has proven to be a bit 'harder to convince. Wanted to see the ultrasound. So, how lucky that his sister happened to be pregnant.
My friend absolutely put her foot down. In any case, he wanted his child to be used as a tool in a Thai bargirls fraud. It is one thing;Step back and watch these girls tear their farang friends. And 'quite another to play an active role in the game of deception.
Without a copy of an ultrasound examination his bluff was called and she was caught. The Australian friend gave up. All sorts of drama ensued. He had a Thai friend and together they lived the high life. Without their benefactors, fast-running huge debts. The friend left in Thailand. She got her mother to borrow money.You default on the loan and her mother spent two days in jail, until my friend gave his bond - after all, is the mother of his wife.
So much drama and anguish that we think can really learn the lesson. And would you believe - the friend in Australia has decided to give him a chance. Now he spends money like water is always convinced that everything that has worked for the better.
Oh yeah, not another thing he said the AustralianFriend. He is ready to start a family, but can not bear children. E 'sterile.
Everything to lose
All these previous stories fade in minor compared to what has happened this guy. I do not know him personally, but I know its neighbors. Worked in Bangkok and arrived in Phuket at the weekend with his wife to see. Their relationship was rocky, and she is working on an amicable split. Who owned the house, but there was still an outstandingMortgage.
One weekend he came home to empty it. Everything of value had disappeared. She was confused and looking for an explanation. Soon he was a representative of a bank who arrived shortly after. The bank has recovered the house. "This can not be," he said. "I have to pay the mortgage each month. The bank said Guy - "The mortgage is with another bank. His wife has a second mortgage on the property and she did not pay.
The type of immigrationrealized he had lost verything. He sought a way out, but there was nobody. Can I use my payment? It 'too late. I'm going to a lawyer! It 'too late. We are taking action for the month. It is now complete. In blind rage, he started this farang smashing the house. The bank called the police and arrested. The house was no longer his property, he should pay the damages.
In the following days to the fullest extent of the betrayal of his wife wasclear. Had
not only took a second mortgage on the property, but had used as collateral
a loan from the local mafia. Took the money and disappeared. There were two banks and the fight against the local mafia to who was entitled to his own house.
I had only once before his wife arrived a couple of weeks. He came around to our call for a home
100,000 Baht loan. He said he would write a contract and return 110,000 baht very
next week. Of course, werejected this generous offer. It must also be aware that it had no intention of paying. Carried in her lap, until they have a sucker willing to give loans to be found. Actually it was a local Thai girl has a beard. It's a small world. Another friend of mine recently met this guy farang working offshore. He worked all the hours he could get to pay its debts. The bank originating the mortgage has insisted that he must pay, or are at his disposal from the blacklistThailand. He still loves Thailand and here his life and will not be blacklisted.
Conclusion
I would like to generalize and say in every case, all Thai women are intrigued or a madman. All four women had one thing in common, all had worked in the sex industry. This does not mean that all Thai girls from the sex industry are poor. Nor is that all Thai girls who have never worked in the sex industry well. But overall, theseThis behavior is much more likely for women who have worked in the sex industry to come.
The tourism industry is all of the sex industry to extract as much money as possible from customers. The girls learn to lie, scheme and play their customers like a violin. You can use the same mentality to pay their long-term relationships. I'm still playing, and unfortunately, because of their relationship, how much money they squeeze from their farang.
II know a lot of people who have great Thai women. I would go as to say that
Kind of stories minority and the majority of men who are in Thailand there is a great woman. The cultural differences are still due to some difficulties and Thai women and certainly not a couple of things that we find strange. As long as both parties are willing to jeopardize all the work can be good.
This is not a purely Thai. I know people who have been stripped by womentheir
own country. And the divorce rate in the West are so high that there's really no point in insisting on the number of non-farang-Thai relations. The insidious side of Thai women no universal truth. However, these stories seem to be more common than elsewhere. I think it's mainly a byproduct of the way many of these relationships started.
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